I think I made a big mistake in my profile description at the Crossdresser’s site.
What happens is that while being a woman I don’t like my man to suck my cock because it reminds me that I have a male body, so I added a note explaining that; and that I’m not interested in a date that wants to be with a woman with a cock, and I explained I don’t consider myself “the best of both worlds”
The result of that note is that letters from people (which were about 30 in a month) dropped to zero!
This has taught me something…that men looking for a “gurl”, even if they want her very feminine and woman-like, what they really are after is a cock in a woman. They like cock, but they don’t seem to feel comfortable having sex with another man, so the solution seems to be to have sex with a woman that has a cock, so they can “enjoy” “the best of both worlds”; but getting a “real” woman who has a cock can be very costly since they seem to be making tons of money in the porn industry, the alternative left for them is a man who feels as a woman, dress and acts as a woman, but still has a cock.
That’s fine with me and I’m happy for them that they found a solution to their desires, but it takes me out of the equation and now I can’t get a date! (sigh).
So the last resort I seem to have is to become very “passable” and feminine, and then open a profile in a heterosexual dating site, where I can find men looking for women. I still will have a cock, but my hopes are that there must be a man who is not getting anything (sexually) and is desperate enough to “oversee” my cock and concentrate in the rest of the body, the look and the manners that should be of a very feminine woman by that time (I still have lots to improve). And to that I can add the advantage for that man that I would be a woman who loves sucking his cock, swallowing, and being very playful sexually, instead of a female who is in search of financial security and/or someone to spend money on her, and that later will use sex as a negotiating tool.
My “target” seems to be married men that are in bad shape and tight financially, so they don’t get sex at home, are (or don’t feel) attractive enough to get another woman as a lover on the side, and cannot pay for sex to a prostitute or a lover (be a sugar daddy).
A man like that (I believe), could be desperate enough for sex, to the point of getting horny with a “woman” who is attractive enough and very sexual with them, that will make them feel the most attractive and sexually desirable man on Earth, and that will let them live all their sexual fantasies, without having to spend any money on her, and all in exchange of overseeing the fact that that woman has a cock, which will be helped by the fact that she doesn’t want him to touch her cock, so they don’t have to.
I’m sure there must be some men in that situation out there!
So we’ll see what happens and how things go. For now I’ll just keep my profile in the crossdresser’s site for a while, before I cancel it due to no activity at all. LOL