Nudity and Sexuality

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As I’ve mentioned before in other posts, I love nudism. It is really pleasant for me to be nude in the outdoors and have the opportunity to enjoy the breeze, the sun (if daytime) and nature in general.

But nudism is different from sexuality.

Generally, when I have the chance to enjoy nudity in the outdoors, I don’t feel aroused and wishing for sex. It is more about a connection with nature and freedom from society rules, rather than sexual play.

I also love to do many activities while being nude (if the circumstances allow for it), like for instance, washing or repairing my car; writing in the computer or cooking. Unfortunately there are very few moments when I’m completely alone at home so to be able to enjoy what resembles for a brief moment a nudist life.

At the other hand, I do love sex and playing with a sex partner. I love kissing, touching and massaging all of my partner’s body. Trying to make him feel attractive and desirable; making him feel that his body is hot and that I need it badly. And I love when my sex partner makes me feel the same. But I prefer physical contact in the privacy of the indoors, in a bedroom that will protect us from the world, and will become the silent witness of two human beings that find themselves lost in the human pleasures of the flesh, away from society, customs and time itself.

It is easy to imagine the excitement of sex in nature, especially when the risk of being caught is present all the time, but I believe that would be an “interesting” activity for those who are looking for more, after many experiences of sex in the bedroom, when such encounters have reached the point of boredom, or simply not so exciting anymore.

In my personal situation, I must admit that I am not a “seasoned” sexual partner and, by the opposite, I have very little experience in man to man encounters. Further more, I still have much confusion about this whole bi-sexuality thing, questioning myself what is it and how it works. I don’t feel guilt or remorse, but rather curiosity about this manifested desires of the mind. And as you might know already by reading my previous posts, I do love questioning and studying the human mind and all its wonders, so it is an interesting task to apply myself at, in the observation, analysis and understanding of our mysterious human brain.

So it becomes to separate things: The nudity in the outdoors (and nudist life in general) for the pleasures and freedom of the true human being within the society citizen in him; in search of the purity of its connection with nature and his individualism from the crowd, and the pleasures of the flesh in a bedroom, to find relief of purely physical needs of the body, together with the connection with another human being. And I guess that’s why tenderness and care are the most important part for me in a sexual encounter.

Angel